Category archives for DATING

3 Reasons To Go on the Second Date

Sometimes first dates don’t always go as you thought they would. So if he or she was a nice person, but it was as perfect as you thought it would be, don’t reject them so quickly. Everyone deserves a chance to redeem themselves, as long as they weren’t a jerk. So what are the three […]

Dating Tip Tuesday: Dating Styles

This week we are going over Francesca Hogi’s 5 Dating Personalities. When you know what your dating style is, it makes it easier to navigate the dating scene to make it a lot less stressful than some take it to be. So what’s your dating style? Below are 5 types: The Avoider The Dreamer The […]

Forget New Year’s Resolutions, Single Women; Time For New Decade Resolutions

Not only is 2020 a New Year, but a new decade is dawning as well, and some people are framing their annual resolutions in a bigger picture than just the next 12 months.  For single women aspiring to embrace being single and enrich their lives throughout the experience, looking ahead 10 years provides a longer […]

Men Will Not Give You What If They Don’t Get It in Return

Relationships are not a lot of, contrary to what some may say. As long as everything is 50-50, things will follow smoothly. There are a lot of women who complain about their men not doing what they “except” them to do. Yet these same women, want do anything for their man. They are takers rather […]

Unrequited Love

I could have loved you, but you didn’t want me to. We never had our first date, regrettably, I turned down lunch that day. You extended an open invitation with no expiration. I took for granted the time I had to wait. On the day I sat across from you, mesmerized by the instant connection […]

Poetry Corner: Date Rape

Have you ever met a guy, who seemed so nice and right, who made you laugh and feel safe on the very first date? I have and this is story that very few know, until now. I said yes to walking in the park, drank the liquor as we sat talking in the car. Curfew […]

Women, How Do You Respect Your Man?

Respect is everything and relationships run on respect, trust and honesty! If you don’t have those things, you have nothing! It starts with respect first!

Is It Possible to Change Your Man?

Okay, so we hear this all to often…women who want to try and change their man. Some would say, “Well, why do you want to change him and why are you with him if you don’t fully accept him for who he is?” Then you’ll have others who will say, “Are you really trying to […]

Grow Together, Work on Each Other

Some are single because they choose to be, but then you have others who date and may have come across someone great. The chemistry is there, they are twin flames and they have the same values, but he or she is just messed up, so the person bounces only to be in misery and never […]

Leadership: The Different Ways Men Lead

Most women assume that all men are interested in leading in one way, which is from the front. However, there are different ways of leadership. Men who prefer to lead from the front usually prefers passive women, women who want to be led and want to follow. There is nothing wrong with that. Men who […]

Women Who Validate Their Low-Self Esteem on Men

Women…we are interesting human beings. We can be overly emotional and sometimes we try to validate our own low-self esteem on what we think men want. How many times have you heard a women say that she gets weave, her nails done, etc to appease her man? When truth be told, men rather have a […]

Domestic Violence Amongst Us

Rapper Bow Wow a.k.a. Shad Moss and his live in girlfriend Leslie Holden were arrested on Super Bowl Sunday. Both charged with battery and assault. Following the incident, news and social media have been flooded with judgement and ridicule of Bow Wow, allegedly allowing a woman to cause him bodily injury, it was visibly apparent […]

Poetry Corner: God Gave Me to You

As Adam and Eve, I was created for you to love me. God saw the need only my beating heart could fulfill. Your rib cages my love in protection, Still allowing it to flow freely to give and receive affection. I was created in perfection, Having to learn some hard lessons, That made me an […]

Royalty: Know and Raise the Value of The King and Queen in You

We as queens and kings have stopped wearing our crowns or aren’t aware we possessed one at all. It’s not about the swag or the sway of your ass. Royalty is a mentality. Regal exudes from your spirituality.  Author of “Queenology” R.C. Blake Jr. states,“Every woman was designed to be an alpha female, too.” Few […]

Poetry Corner: The Perfectly Imperfect Bond

People will throw out many things That cause a relationship to fail They’ll mention every little thing under the sun Then continue to make the same mistake in the next relationship  This mistake of trying to look and capture perfection,  Is what has and will keep many people alone forever, Unless they change their mindset.  […]

Portrait Of Love

Once upon a time…wait, to HELL with that line. When it comes to love, no one can be blind. Believing in “true love” and all that comes with, it’s seems the reality…..is probably a myth. Paint a perfect picture, take a picture of love and think to yourself, what are your thoughts of? Is it […]

Examples of Conditional Love: Signs to Watch Out For

Everyone craves to be loved and to love that special someone, but don’t be so desperate for love that you end up running into “fake love”, also known as ‘conditional love’. Conditional love can be described as the one or all of the following traits: I will love you only if you make me feel […]

Love Me Deep

Did all girls dream of their Prince Charming but when he came, it was alarming. You were looking to be rescued, but all you get is ridiculed and you think to yourself, “Lord, what can I do?” How can I make him see that I’m his friend and not his enemy. That loving me is […]

Deep

Deep is the desire to be the apple of his eye, to comfort me when I cry, to be shown there is no limit, not even the sky….of how much he loves me, I wonder did he love me, could he love me, teach me……how to love me? He had two others before me, so […]

Know the 8 Signs of An Abuser Before Its Too Late

Love does not abuse you. It does not hit you. When someone really loves you, they’ll want to protect you, but not to where they threaten your lively hood or take away your freedom.  You can usually spot an abuser pretty early on. Here are 8 actions that help in identifying of you’re with an […]

How to Find The Right Relationship

Summer time is right around the corner and people are still out lurking for ‘bae’ and anticipating on taking a few ‘bae-cations’ or hoping to meet ‘the one’ while they are on summer vacation. But before you complete your search, there are a few tips on how to find the right relationship. You never know, […]